Most Important...Why?

Why is the single most important question you can ask yourself as a Coach.  More than any other concept or topic, if you learn nothing else from this site, learn the simple but highly impactful technique of why.
 
Ask yourself “why”…why are you doing everything you do as a Coach.
 
Why?  Did you pick each and every player on your team?  What do you believe each player brings to your team?
 
Why? Are you choosing those specific drills for practice?  What do you want your players to learn and how do you want them to execute your drills in a game?
 
Why? Are you choosing those specific players for your PK and PP lines?  What specific qualities do these players possess over your other players?
 
Why? Are you saying that to your players?  Think of your pre/post game speeches, what are you developing or inspiring in your players, what was the point of your comments?
 
By consistently reflecting on why you are making the decision you are making, what you are doing and what you are saying, you will become a much more effective communicator and leader with your team.
 
Knowing the reasons you are doing what you are doing will also create a communication strategy for you to use with your parent and player group.   By communicating your whys, your players and their parents will have a better understanding of what your expectations are and allow you a clearer platform for corrections and for building a more collaborative relationship.
 
Remember that Minor Hockey is developmental hockey, these are kids not professionals, do not assume they know the right thing to do or that their personal expectations are in-line with yours.  When you reflect on why you are doing what you are doing and communicate this to your team you will have created a communication flow that is easier for your players to follow, a platform in which you can direct development, a foundation for discipline and reward, and created greater buy-in from both your parents and players.